GULLIBLE EVE

Recently, I came across a viral video in which a supposed Pastor was seen bathing his naked female members in front of the church congregation as a New Year's cross-over ritual. 

This sent my mind on a spiral, thinking of all the things women easily fall for, and why not their male counterparts. 

If you attend any religious (especially Christian) program today, the majority in attendance would be women. This is usually not because they are more spiritual than the men, but because they were easily convinced to attend such programs. Women are believed to seek miracles more than men, perhaps it is because they are said to be most vulnerable so they require divine intervention in everything that concerns them. Despite all the religiosity, women still don't prosper beyond belief because they hate themselves more than they hate the devil. Competition is a big deal to them, and even in the house of God, they still gossip about one another.

Any manipulator of words can easily make women do stupid things like cooking for a pastor instead of their husband, sleeping and working in church instead of taking care of their home. Women could give everything to the dullest fraud because of their gullibility. The majority of those scammed by internet fraudsters are women, they also constitute 80% of those who fall for Ponzi scheme frauds like the MMM. 

Question is, WHY? 

This took me back to the biblical character of Eve in the garden of Eden. The serpent knew the one amongst the two that could fall for his cheap lie, he picked his target and she did not disappoint. Perhaps the serpent already knew the woman was designed to fall easily when promised a better and easier life than what was already promised by the One who created her. She had everything but wanted to have more without consulting her partner who may have seen through the serpent's bluff and saved the entire humanity from the consequences of her gullibility. 

Even in matters of love, women are easily fooled by men who can detect their feminine desires and PROMISE to meet them if given a chance. 

Statistics showed that 98% of women who fall in love with men they'd just met, would easily tell such men everything about themselves in a matter of hours or days; because they believed that "this is the one" and can be trusted with their dirtiest and most intimate secrets... From their favourite colour to their favourite sex position in a blink of an eye. 🤣

Anyone who knows everything about you holds all the four aces in your life. They control your life and emotions and will use the information to manipulate you until they get tired of using you, or you get tired of being used and bounced. 

The way a woman would easily trust a pastor with her most sacred secrets, she would trust a lover or "bestie" with the same, until they break up and the secrets start flying in the market square, then they begin to regret ever trusting anybody. "WHY TRUST ANOTHER PERSON TO KEEP A SECRET YOU COULDN'T KEEP TO YOURSELF?"

Trust is important in every relationship, but the only difference between being gullible and trusting is very slim.

Why are women most bitter when a romantic relationship ends? Because they have fallen and invested everything in a man whose target is short-term, but they were too trusting to assume that the man wanted what they also desired from the relationship. MARRIAGE!

Ladies hardly speak rosy words about their exes, some would go to the extent of childishly blocking the Ex on social media because it hurts them to see anything good about their Ex. An unforgiving gender which appears to be more religious than the Pope. How ironic. 😒

The needs of women are few, and once these are met, the woman does not feel the need to stress herself any further or do anything extra. 

Some of them just wanna be in a relationship, it is enough to make them happy. Some set marriage as their destination, they just wanna get married and relax their mind. Others just wanna slay on social media and get all the comments and likes, this makes them feel fulfilled and sorta activates their celebrity status. 

But how could a person whose life and happiness depend on the expectation of constant validation from others be without hurt and disappointment? 

How is it even possible for a person who could hold a grudge against a friend for only liking their birthday photos without posting a comment that the photos are beautiful, be able to reason like a rational adult? 

Sometimes I get upset at how some ladies get treated by men, but I end up blaming myself for expecting too much from the ladies whose only desire was to be able to confidently boast that they have a boyfriend, fiance, or husband, and are better than their single friends. 

In summary, people are weighed by their wants and needs. Not by their level of education or sexiness, or popularity. What exactly do you want in life? The answer to this decides where others would place you in their own life. 

An article I read a long time ago said, "women do better than men when they decide to use the brain instead of the heart". 

If only they could discover the power of their cerebral cortex, no woman would become a victim of any fake pastor or fake lover. Women would understand that the patriarchal system was created to clip their wings and keep them caged, dependent on men for love, affection, shelter, food, validation, and everything. 

The moment a lady becomes an independent thinker, men fear and avoid them. Why? Because she no longer needs them for anything, and the best they can do is to peddle petty lies about her. Call her names to make her unattractive to other potential suitors. Who cares? 🙄

What does she even need the man for? 🤷🏽‍♂️

Once a woman drops gullibility, their star shines brightest. They begin to chase personal goals, not men, attention, acceptance, or other useless things that society expects them to chase. They understand that they have to be different from the rest, and they start working to be different from other women. Better than other women. 

There won't be any need to hold a grudge against another woman since they're now more enlightened and have a glimpse of an advanced perspective of the world and life itself. 

FOCUS on becoming a force to reckon with, and you'd have graduated from the ranks of the gullible. 

©JBZ_2022™