Jibo Zhema

I remember being told to stop using Procter and Gamble products because the company owner paid dues to the devil. I was only a kid, but I knew it was a bloated hoax. 🙄 Religious fanatics believed the lie and helped spread it on behalf of those who started it to gain a competitive advantage in the industry.  Later on, we were again lied to that ingesting and bathing with salt water before the sun came up would prevent us from getting the Ebola virus. 🤣 Many educated folks fell for this lie without question and went further to spread it like wildfire down the grapevine.  Now, why are we always eager to believe and spread rumours and lies without challenging the authenticity of their source?  If I believed the things I'd been told about the people in my life, I would be without a single friend today. But I was sharp enough to know that nobody talks bad about another unless they're jealous or outright hating. 😒 You'd find yourself a damn fine thing to date but people who d...

 Joy got married last December to a man she'd just started dating in October. When asked why she rushed into it, she said her Ex dumped her to get married in February of the following year, so she wanted to rub it in his face that she did it before him. It wasn't important if she was hitching it with the right dude or not, all she wanted was to make a loud and " painful " statement to an Ex who's already moved on with their life. 🤣 When Farida said YES  to Abdul two years ago, it wasn't out of her love and affection for him; she just wanted to prove to her married friends that she too could do it... has done it. 🤔 Ene is planning for her wedding introduction, the money spent on organizing the occasion alone could pay for an entire wedding ceremony. But she wanted to make a statement with this, she wanted all her haters to see how colorful and classy her wedding introduction was going to be, so they know she was not on the same level as them. She must plaster...

Recently, I came across a viral video in which a supposed Pastor was seen bathing his naked female members in front of the church congregation as a New Year's cross-over ritual.  This sent my mind on a spiral, thinking of all the things women easily fall for, and why not their male counterparts.  If you attend any religious (especially Christian) program today, the majority in attendance would be women. This is usually not because they are more spiritual than the men, but because they were easily convinced to attend such programs. Women are believed to seek miracles more than men, perhaps it is because they are said to be most vulnerable so they require divine intervention in everything that concerns them. Despite all the religiosity, women still don't prosper beyond belief because they hate themselves more than they hate the devil. Competition is a big deal to them, and even in the house of God, they still gossip about one another. Any manipulator of words can easily make wom...

Why is sex important in a relationship?  Why has sex taken the place of intimate conversations and deep romantic activities?  Most men want sex because they feel that's all the lady has got to offer, while most women want sex because they either wanna feel good or just do it to keep the man and make him happy. There are sexless relationships that have proven to be happy, sincere and romantic. But as human beings, we can't all want the same thing at the same time; one partner may not be comfortable with the sexless arrangement and reserve a secret pail of water on the side to quench the thirst whenever it arises while their lover still clings to the celibacy agreement.  Many ladies assume that sex is enough to tie down a wandering lover, others think withholding sex would have the man on a leash. But men and sex are like seawater and the shoreline, the same water gets to touch many beaches across the globe. If it's not found on the beaches of Ghana, it'd be kissing the s...