WHY MARRY?
Joy got married last December to a man she'd just started dating in October. When asked why she rushed into it, she said her Ex dumped her to get married in February of the following year, so she wanted to rub it in his face that she did it before him. It wasn't important if she was hitching it with the right dude or not, all she wanted was to make a loud and "painful" statement to an Ex who's already moved on with their life. 🤣
Ene is planning for her wedding introduction, the money spent on organizing the occasion alone could pay for an entire wedding ceremony. But she wanted to make a statement with this, she wanted all her haters to see how colorful and classy her wedding introduction was going to be, so they know she was not on the same level as them. She must plaster the photos on social media for the whole world to see, in case there's any desperate chic out there still thinking of snatching her man. 😡
What marriage means to women is entirely different from what it means to men, that's why most African men would propose to a lady with the gait and attitude of a person who's doing the other a huge favor since that's exactly the only thing the lady has been praying and fasting for. 🙏🏾
Do men ever pray and fast for their girlfriends to accept their proposal or marry them? NO! Men already know it is a done deal as soon as they produced the ring, except if the man has been an asshole and the lady was no longer with him for the long haul.
Marriage means so much to women nowadays that they have found a way to use it to spite and ridicule their single friends and call them all sorts of names because a man has used his status to change her's from a Miss to a Mrs.
It is nearly impossible for a friendship to continue to thrive among girlfriends when one gets married and the other(s) is(are) still unmarried. The attitude a married friend puts on the plate is usually too bitter for her single friends to swallow, so they withdraw and the drama begins.
It's either she no longer has the time to keep up with the friendship, her husband doesn't want to see her rolling with them again, or she begins to have this air around her that says, "I'm better than you". 🙄
It is hard to detect a married guy in a pool of friends catching a good time in a bar. Men usually do not even care whether their friends are married or not, their friendship transcends all that childishness. And it is seen in how they are always willing to cover up for each other every time; not the same for the other gender. 🤔
A woman believes that marriage is the ultimate because her most cherished goal in life is to be called a Mother. But you don't need marriage to become one. 🤷🏽♂️
A woman thinks that being married makes her a superior human, a better person, and a respectable member of society. They usually forget that it is better to remain single and content than married and frustrated. Nobody respects you for being a wife, they respect your husband for his ability to cater for another full-grown adult who has found the Promised Land in his house. 🙄
When your main reason for settling is hinged on trying to prove a point to other people, then you may not be able to completely find love in that union. You will spend the entire time trying to post your fake happiness on social media while you retire to bed unhappy every night. 😒
Marriage does not change a person, it only amplifies what has always been buried in the person's soul. Most ladies harbor evil thoughts and plans against their friends whom they've dined and wined with for almost all their lives. This is because it is in their nature to nurse grudges like kids and be vindictive like witches. So once they get married, they immediately begin to display an unbelievable level of pettiness that can only be rivaled by that of an incurable idiot.
Marriage is not a bad thing, but what most ladies do to get married, or after they get married is the problem. How can a lady take a man's photograph to a prayer house? Why do ladies feel the need to talk to pastors about their PRIVATE relationships? You can't walk on hot coal and not get burned. It backfires every damn time. And you'd end up singing" Carry me dey go my husband house" because faith becomes your final resort.
In conclusion, people get married for various reasons and the only reason most ladies do it is to be able to boast and brag that they too have finally done it. To be able to flaunt their spouse or family in order to mock, spite, or taunt their single friends who may actually be living a happier and more fulfilled life without having to pretend they're happy when they're not.
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